That reaction is not a choice. It is a legacy.
Close your eyes for a moment. Imagine you are standing at the edge of a dark forest as the sun sets. The air is cold. You hear a twig snap behind you. Before you can reason, before you can tell yourself it’s “probably just an animal,” your heart is already pounding. Your palms are sweating. Your muscles are coiled to run. primordial fears
This is called "prepared learning." You aren't born afraid of snakes. But you are born prepared to be terrified of them after a single bad experience. This evolutionary shortcut saved hominids from venomous bites for millions of years. Nyctophobia is not actually a fear of darkness itself. Darkness has no substance. It is a fear of the information gap . In the light, you can see the lion. In the dark, the lion could be three feet away or three miles away; you have no data. That reaction is not a choice