So go ahead. Loosen your tie (or throw it away). Take up space. Let the fresh air in. The world is dying of suffocation; be the draft.
And you are not here to be viewed. You are here to be ventilated . how to get unstuffy
If a habit, a friendship, a piece of furniture, or a thought pattern blocks the flow—if it makes the room feel smaller—it must be ventilated. You will never be permanently unstuffy. Stuffiness is the natural gravity of adulthood. It seeps back in through mortgages, Zoom calls, and the accumulation of sensible furniture. Getting unstuffy is not a destination; it is a maintenance routine. So go ahead